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Dr. Becky Bailey


   Discipline Tips & Tidbits

 

 Becky's Top 10 Things To Do

1. Tell children what to do

Principle: What you focus on, you get more of.

Application: Instead of saying, "No pushing, you know better than to push your brother, pushing is not nice," say, "When you want your brother to move say, 'Move please.' Tell him now." Focus on what you want your children to do!

 S.T.A.R. Teacher Tip of the Month


Here is a quick tip for teachers who are working with young children: I noticed when teaching how to be a S.T.A.R. (Stop, Take a deep breath, And Relax), they really did not understand what "relax" meant. Now we play the "Popsicle Game" to help them experience and understand what it means to relax. ...


 Your Questions and Answers


What do I do when a child comes running saying, "He took my pencil!" or "She went in my room without permission!"

Use this type of conflict moment as an opportunity to teach children how to respond to a situation, rather than offering only punishment. Teaching children how to respond is the cornerstone of developing responsibility. Empower the children to assertively stand up to children who intrude upon their personal space or property. When a child comes to you saying, "Sam took my pencil," your first response is to ask, "Did you like it?" ...


 Shubert Sees the Best Glasses

    Heart-Shaped Glasses to See the Best in Others
A great activity to accompany Shubert Sees The Best ! These heart-shaped glasses help to make the concept of "seeing the best in others" more concrete in young minds. Before reading Shubert Sees the Best, print the PDF template (below) on legal-sized paper. (Older children can cut the glasses out themselves, but you may want to precut the glasses for younger children.) After reading Shubert Sees the Best, present each child with his/her own pair of glasses. Then everyone enjoys coloring and decorating their own pair of heart-shaped glasses just like Shubert's! Once decorated, put the glasses on and have a class or family meeting to talk about what it means to see the best in others.

No time for all the photocopying and cutting? Purchase heavy-weight precut heart-shaped glasses here.

Glasses Template

 

 

 It Starts in the Heart Lyrics & Activities

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You will need Adobe Acrobat Reader to view this file.                                   

 I Love You Rituals Teddy Bear Activity Board


Use this template to create an I Love You Rituals Teddy Bear Activity Board for your classroom or at home. Twelve different choices help cement the connecting rituals in your child's mind, and help to develop your child's decision-making skills. Plus, it's cute, cuddly and fun!   
 Safe Place Icons

Safe Place Icons                        

   

Click the above link or any icon to open up the file of the Safe Place Icons. You can also right click each individual icon and save as if you would like them separated. 

Once you open the PDF file you may save it to your hard drive by right clicking and saving as.

You must have Adobe Acrobat reader to open this file.  To download Adobe Reader

 

 On Top of My Brainstem (song lyrics)

On top of my brainstem all nestled in grey

Just under my cortex my limbic will stay

Unconscious and verbal I can act like a fool

Without my cortex to help me stay cool

                             

If I pound on the table or roll on the floor

You know that my brainstem can't take anymore

So let me breathe deeply let the oxygen flow

On up to my cortex so that I won't blow

*sing to the tune of:  On top of ole Smokey

 

 Breathing STAR



Invite children to "Breathe with me..." Allow time for each child to have a turn to hold and explore in a small group. Place in "Safe Place" for children to use and manipulate while actively calming and relaxing! More

 Shubert Literacy Worksheets

Shubert Literacy Worksheets. 

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 Safe Place - Sensory Integration Signs

Sense of Smell Sense of Sight Children with Special Needs
Sense of Sound Sense of Touch

 PowerPoints and Handouts Available for Download

NAEYC 2008 - Sit Still, Pay Attention, Look at Me

NAEYC 2008 - Creating a school community to foster empathy, self-regulation and problem solving

NAEYC 2008 - Assessing Brain States in Order to
Teach Self-Regulation


NAEYC 2008 - Administrators - Agents for Change:
Transforming teacher behaviors

Learning Brain 2008

Culture of Care 2008

 


 
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